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I've been dealin with this dude for a month and a half and I'm ready to be with him but I'm not sure how to get him to the same point.... HELP MEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!
Erica from Da BX
Well first things first did u tell him u want to be exclusive?? If u did I guess it all depends on what type of guy he is. If I was the dude u were dating I'd like u to tell me straight out I'm not the type of dude that likes to have to guess how u feelin or what u might want.... I'd much rather just be very open about it not sayin that we have to have some long drawn out convo about and make sure not to start the convo with we need to talk that puts guys in a mood to begin with lol...
Advice & Post By: Paulie Walnutts
"I've been dating my girl for about a year and a half. Last week we went out with one of her friends and I'm feeling her. We have spoken a few times since then, how do I make the switch?"
Steve From Philly
Simply put, you don't! 1st of all, the grass may seem greener but it never is. You should never leave your 80 for your 20 and even if you don't see your girlfriend as your 80 this still isn't a good idea.
Let's think this through...your girlfriend trusted her friend enough to bring her around you. Girls usually don't do that unless they find the friend to be trustworthy. This "friend" has already been speaking to you behind your girlfriends back. What does this say about this "friend"? What this shows is her inability to be loyal to someone who considers her a friend. Her relationship with your girl predates your relationship with her so what would make you think she would be loyal to you?
Real women know you don't go looking for a husband in someone else's home!
Advice By: Simple L
Post By: Paulie Walnutts
So now that I have her number...where do I take her on a 1st date??
Well being a part time recessionista I have the perfect low cost/free first date! I suggest that you take advantage of all that your city has to offer. Summertime in NYC is the perfect time for a relationship to blossom; there are lots of free events taking place every day of the week.
My suggestion for a quality date that can get you time for good convo and nice cuddling is taking advantage of an outdoor movie series. There are over 5 locations in NYC that offer free outdoor movies on a weekly basis. The two that provide the most romantic settings are Under the Brooklyn Bridge (provides an amazing view of downtown Manhattan) and Bryant Park (beautiful midtown and classic movies). You can check out this site for the movie listings:
http://gonyc.about.com/od/summer/a/summermovies.htm
Here are some good tips that are sure to score you some brownie points:
1. Plan ahead! Bring the blanket, some refreshments and snacks, and possibly some picnic style dinner!
2. Bring a large trash bag for under the blanket! Around dusk the grass gets some dew on it and its a nice touch to have something that shields her from getting her clothing damp.
3. Have a sweater or light blanket that you can keep her warm with. As the temperature drops it can be your excuse to come close and hold her tight.
This is an amazing 1st date that is romantic, fun, and guaranteed to get you a 2nd date. If this doesn't get you a second date then she's just not that into you...move on!Advice: Simple L
Post Done By: Paulie Walnutts
How do u break up with girl that your not really in a relationship with??
-Marcus from Houston
Well that a good question, I kno most dudes feel like I shouldn't have to break up with some one that I'm not even in a relationship with but the truth of the matter is if ur dealing with some one they're some sort of feelings there, weather it be from the male end or female end. So I would say the best way is to sit him or her down and just be honest!! If the guy is sittin the girl down do it outside ya house so she can't break any of ur stuff lol but even though it might hurt honest is the best policy.....
Advice By: Swaz
Post Done By: Paulie Walnutts
How can I get a woman to want to give me her number when I go out?Approaching a woman can be tricky especially in a bar/lounge setting. The best thing you can do is approach her with respect and class. Walk up, introduce yourself, and then ask for her name. Try not to say anything corny, anything crazy, or anything cheesy! Now take note becus a lot of men go wrong here...The next thing to do is ask to buy her something to drink!! If you really want to get in good you should buy her girlfriends a round as well. (If the recession is hittin your pocket, save the drinks for the girlfriends until after you decide you like her)If you sense a spark ask her to dance...as an extra hint most Latina women love to dance to Spanish Music, even if you aren't a pro we will appreciate the attempt! The important part of asking the woman to dance is not to grab all over her while you are dancing! Keep a respectable distance while allowing for some fun and flirty touching and eye contact. It should be a breeze asking and actually RECEIVING her number if you follow these simply L steps!Advice From: Simply LPosted By: Paulie Walnutts
